My Mother’s Day Weekend

There is a whole spectrum that exists when it comes to celebrating Mother’s Day.  I know some mothers who loathe this day with a passion so they avoid any and all celebration, and I also know other women who love to be pampered on this special occasion complete with plenty of gifts and breakfast in bed.

I tend to be a pretty simplistic person so when Randy asked me how he could make the day a special one for me, without even thinking or pausing I exclaimed, “I would love a nap and some quiet time.”  [I know, the irony is not lost on me - here I am requesting a break from the very beings that make me a mother :) .  However, I am a firm believer that when we get some alone time to refuel and recharge our soul, we become better parents.]  Randy lovingly gave me what I wished for, though the nap was more a simple rest since sleep eluded me.

This year I also wanted some pictures taken of me with each of the kids.  That wish was also fulfilled.  We also got a family shot taken since my sister was in town and could play photographer for us.

The kids also showered me with cards and presents.  Eli’s Sunbeam teacher at church baked brownies for the kids to give their moms.  Eli proudly picked out the biggest one to give me.  After he gave it to me, he promptly and sweetly asked for a bite.  I kindly obliged, and I also shared with the rest of the kids.

Cory made a dragonfly tile for me in school.

The art docent he has for the current school year, a parent volunteer, is amazingly talented!  The projects she comes up with are incredible.  Here is the Easter gift he created for the family, a ceramic and gorgeously painted flower.

Cory also filled out this questionnaire at Church about me.  Here are a few of my favorite excerpts:

**My mom likes to wear clothes [so she can be modest  - that last phrase was added verbally when I read it aloud in the car on the way home].
**She loves to eat chocolate cake.
**She is smart because she knows the capital of the United States.
**My mom works hard at making food for the family.
**Mommy always tells me to listen.
**It makes my Mommy happy when I listen.
**If she could go on a trip, she would go to California and she would take the family.
**I really love it when my Mom hugs me.
**If I could give my Mommy anything, it would be flowers.

Keri and I were able to attend a Mother and Daughter activity where we made a garden stepping stone together.

Overall, I couldn’t have asked for a better “Mother’s Weekend” – I adored how Randy kept referring to it as that since he wanted me to truly enjoy both days, especially since Sundays can get rather hectic.  It was wonderful to bask in the plentiful sunshine and to spend time with those I love.  I even enjoyed a rare Girls Night Out on Saturday evening as I helped a dear friend celebrate her 30th birthday.  I definitely felt loved and cherished by my family and I feel blessed to have them in my life!  I am grateful for all the joy and laughter they bring me and I am grateful for all the ways they challenge me to grow and become a better person.

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10 Responses to My Mother’s Day Weekend

  1. Liz

    i ADORE that you got photos with your family for mother’s day. that seems the most appropriate thing to do on such a day. LOVE your bright green shirt! so cute. the silly shots are hilarious esp. the last one since r looks so not-silly! :)
    and a request for a nap and quiet time? ummm…so the best gift. you’re right about re-charge time! i’m sure most moms asked for that on mom’s day!
    um, woah! those projects of c’s are GORGEOUS! i love gifts like that. colored pictures are great, but so easily lost and disposed of. love the ceramics!
    and the stepping stone from k! such a wonderful thing and memory to share forever!
    you are indeed blessed with such a precious family.
    and they are beyond lucky to have such a devoted and talented lady at the helm!

    • Liz – I *almost* made the same exact comment as you did on our silly picture. R is the KING of silly faces, yet in that particular photo when we said be silly he is as sweet as can be with a smile on his face looking directly at the camera :) !! (Though I will have some funny ones of him to post from his birthday!)

  2. What a nice Mother’s Day you had! And you deserve it. Sounds like everyone was healthy too! Photos of you with your kids is such a great idea. You’re right that there’s a wide spectrum of how moms like to celebrate the day. It’s hard to let the focus be on you, but this year I welcomed it moreso than years before where I said “oh we don’t have to do much…” Parenting is hard and we deserve recognition! It was pointed out to Nathan by a church friend that he’s NEVER had to make dinner on Mother’s Day because we have alllllways spent it with our moms at their homes. That thought never crossed my mind but now that it’s been brought to our attention, I’ll be making sure more happens next year!

    • Cailean – R has never made dinner for me either on Mother’s Day. But for now while there are energetic kids in the home, I would rather make dinner in peace and quiet while he watches the troops :) !!

  3. MOM

    Love this post. Love posting person too. :)

  4. I’m glad your family did such a good job of spoiling you! You have a beautiful family!

  5. marindarrell

    What a nice way to celebrate mother’s day. I’m very pleased to see all of those happy faces and I must this family is looking really great together. Thanks

  6. Dana

    Absolutely love this!!!

  7. Sounds like the perfect mother’s day to me! I’m going to steal your idea of getting pictures with each child, that is perfect! You deserve nothing but the best, so glad everyone did their part to make it special for you!

  8. Heidi

    I love your mother’s day request. Sounds good to me! Not what I got, but last Sunday I stayed home with 1 sick kid from Church and it was SO nice and restful. I told Kyle next year I want a break from the kiddos for mother’s day. haha! Glad you had a great weekend!

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