I should know this by now, but when I get home from an extended vacation, it usually takes me a few solid weeks to finally get back to “normal.” Typically within a few days the unpacking is complete and laundry is done. It is just the lack of motivation to return to the grind of daily life that takes forever and then some to go away.
My motivation right now to do anything that doesn’t absolutely have to be done? Zero. I am blaming it on the lack of sunshine I have experienced over the last 7 days since I have been back in the Pacific Northwest. I admit, I am addicted to sunlight. I need it in order to thrive.
I was definitely spoiled while in Los Angeles and Laguna Niguel.
The sun was plentiful, the warmth was inspiring, and the backyards for kids to play in were well used. I thoroughly enjoyed the cooking that was done by mom and sisters, I adored my nephews and nieces and siblings who entertained my kids, and my husband who got up with the children every day so I could sleep in deserves a medal. My list of luxuries could go on and on.
I should dazzle you right now with some gorgeous pictures from my trip, but I can’t even do that. I spent so much time relaxing and enjoying my family that we didn’t snap a single photo while on our excursion. Ironically I am not too distraught over this. At least we created lots of memories we can cherish for years to come.
I was hoping writing this post would bring a tiny shred of motivation back into my life, but that hasn’t happened yet. All well, my birthday is this Saturday, perhaps my birthday present to myself will be to remain unmotivated for just a few more days 
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I am so with you on needing sunlight. So few people are actually aware of Seasonal Affective Disorder(SAD). It is a real condition that is caused by the lack of sunlight. If you haven’t researched it do. It might help you. Many people in darker, rainy places need a light box to help them.
Hang in there! We are now on the way to longer days!
I think the gift of unmotivation is a great one to yourself. Heck, you’ve done enough blogging in the past year to count for a lot longer blogging hiatus than just a few days. I do, however, miss having you around the blog-o-sphere! Take care and happy birthday!
Well–the rain sure seems to be here to stay for a bit. Having grown up here, I don’t really mind the rain, but know that the lack of sun is a real problem. I actually kind of like the rain–it is winter to me–and I really need to feel and see definite seasons. I hope you have a lovely birthday and that the sun makes an appearance for you!
*smiles*
Kim
i also suffer from that same thing. living in germany during the winter was tough. i would turn all the lights on in the house and still it was difficult to be motivated. i grew up in SoCal too, not far from you. living in texas was great for that one thing. i hope you can get through it!! turn all the lights on, and do something you like. it should come back soon…..
i know a lady that will fly back to the states in the winter. germany is just too difficult for her, so she leaves her husband and son to their own devices. you do what you gotta go. (her son is an adult…)
Happy Birthday! It’s hard to get back on track after a trip. I think giving yourself your birthday off is a great idea! Think of it as your post vacation vacation
Heyyyyy! You weren’t supposed to mention your birthday so I could be one of the few brilliant gals that remembered! Drat! =P
So know what you mean about vacation mode. I live in it.
Sometimes you don’t need pictures, like you said, and working too hard to take them would actually take away from the moments your enjoying. I’m so glad this happens to other people, it takes me quite awhile to get back in my groove.
Happy Birthday! It’s nice to have you back. I missed you.
Happy Birthday! You definitely deserve a few more unmotivated days!
Do what you can do. We’ll miss you while you veg and be happy when you return!
I didn’t even go anywhere-just had everyone come here. I am still trying to get back in the groove and get going. I am enjoying my lack of motivation and calling it good. Tomorrow I might be more productive. Sure was funn having everyone here. Loved it.
Love you
MOM
Happy Birthday to you tomorrow!!!
Happy Birthday!! Saturday is a good day–my girl turns 2 on Saturday! (And DH celebrates another year on Sunday)
It’s always hard to get back into it after vacation. But everything will work itself out in a few days.
I think someone as motivated as you deserves to take a motivation break =). We should get together to help each other get through the grey season. I’ve been really struggling with doing more than the minimum too. Enjoy your b-day!!!
Happy early birthday! Hey, I’ve got an award for you over at my place… mosey on over whenever you can muster up the strength. Lol.
Blaming sunlight deprivation… sounds totally logical to me – LOL!
those vacations memories will forever be cherished in your heart and your family as well – with or without the photos. I’m glad you all had a wonderful time
Me too, girl. Addicted to sunlight … (sigh).
On your birthday I wish you much pleasure and joy;
I hope all of your wishes come true.
May each hour and minute be filled with delight,
And your birthday be perfect for you!
(By Joanna Fuchs)
Wishing you a wonderful birthday! God bless!
P.S. We’re going on a family trip to a beach resort next weekend! I think it’s a perfect way to start the new year! =D Take care!
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My grandparents and extended family live in Laguna Niguel as well. What are the chances? It’s not exactly a huge bustling metropolis.
We’re all going down in the summer await our warm weather!