During this time of year it is so easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of the season. We need to put decorations up, we need to buy gifts, we need to wrap gifts, we need to bake yummy treats, we need to deliver all the baked goods, we need to go to this Christmas party and this Christmas program and we need to address and mail all of our Christmas cards. When we have so much to do it sometimes gets hard to keep the true spirit of Christmas.
To combat the craziness, I like my family to do something that my mother taught us 9 kids to do when we were little children. During the month of December (ideally we would try to do this every night) we would write notes to each other, including to the parents, and put them in each other’s stockings. We weren’t allowed to read them until Christmas, although I remember some years I would sneakily take down my stocking and run to the bathroom so I could peek at the notes I had. (Sorry mom
!)
You didn’t have to write a note to everyone every day, but you were supposed to write at least one note and you were supposed to rotate to whom you wrote. They could either be simple notes about thanking someone for doing the dishes when it was supposed to be your turn to do them, or they could be more involved letters where you told your sibling or parent why you were grateful to have them in your life. There would be times when we would really get into it and we would write several notes throughout the day. And of course some years we did better on writing these notes than other years.
On Christmas morning it was a tradition in our family to “open” our stockings before we opened any presents. I still remember the special feelings of love and warmth I would get when I read all these notes that had been written just to me! Writing these notes and receiving these notes really did help us to focus more on the true meaning of Christmas and it also taught me many valuable lessons. Above all it taught me how to enjoy doing quiet/anonymous service for others and it taught me to love the feeling I got inside when I did something nice for someone else.
**This post was originally published in 2006.**
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45 Comments
December 5, 2007 at 9:03 AM
Lovely! Another great idea from your house and family. I like this.
December 5, 2007 at 10:16 AM
Beautiful, lovely tradition.
December 5, 2007 at 11:03 AM
What a lovely idea!
December 5, 2007 at 11:05 AM
This is a wonderful tradition! Thanks so much for sharing… I really LOVE this idea!!
December 5, 2007 at 11:44 AM
What a terrific idea! I may have to steal it.
December 5, 2007 at 12:00 PM
I love this idea. It keeps the focus on important things like gratitude and the riches we have in just having loving family. This is a beautiful idea!
Also, I suspect that when people dig into their stockings the notes become more of a draw than candy or toys…. Or at least AS good!
December 5, 2007 at 12:26 PM
I absolutely LOVE this tradition. What a wonderful thing to do. Thank you for joining in the Holiday Festival!!
December 5, 2007 at 1:59 PM
What an incredible “gift” to give to each family member and encourage each other. I am so going to talk to my husband about that one! We haven’t ever done stockings, but I would do them for this. I hope it’s ok if I link to your post in the next few days. I’m “updating” the traditions post I did about a week ago with some that people have emailed me with – and adding this one too.
Thanks for sharing!
Jolanthe
December 5, 2007 at 2:04 PM
What a neat way to bring the focus to where it should be. Thanks for sharing it.
December 5, 2007 at 2:17 PM
This is the neatest idea! Thanks for sharing!!
I noticed my 5 year old has already been putting pictures in everyone’s stockings!
December 5, 2007 at 2:24 PM
That is such a sweet idea and a great way to foster strong family relationships!
December 5, 2007 at 2:29 PM
Nice idea!
December 5, 2007 at 2:53 PM
A lovely tradition! I might have to ‘borrow’ it! : )
December 5, 2007 at 2:56 PM
I love this idea! So sweet!
December 5, 2007 at 3:22 PM
that is such a sweet idea…i think i may borrow that when my kids get older
December 5, 2007 at 3:45 PM
what a great tradition!
December 5, 2007 at 4:06 PM
That is a very unique idea! What a great family tradition.
December 5, 2007 at 4:24 PM
This is a great idea. Thanks for sharing, I love it!
December 5, 2007 at 5:00 PM
I hope I can remember this for when the kids get a little older. Actually, most of them can write and i could help the others. The only problem is that we don’t hang out stockings ’till Christmas eve. hmmm, I’ll have to play with this idea.
December 5, 2007 at 5:53 PM
What a neat tradition! Thanks for sharing this wonderful idea with us.
December 5, 2007 at 9:16 PM
We tried this out last year after reading your post. It definitely added something special to our Christmas and we’re excited to do it again this year! Thanks for the great idea!
December 5, 2007 at 10:22 PM
a great idea. love that!
December 6, 2007 at 6:19 AM
I love, love, love that idea. I think we are going to do something like that. 2 of my kids are too young to write but maybe they can draw a picture. Thanks for sharing. I love that.
December 6, 2007 at 7:13 AM
Oh my heart! THIS is an AMAZING tradition!!!! One I plan to implement once my kids are a little bit older! How delightful! And I can totally see how this would make your Christmas morning focus more clearly on Jesus.
Way to GO!
December 6, 2007 at 7:43 AM
What a sweet tradition! I’m doing something similar with an Advent Calendar this year–don’t want to add to the clutter Santa will fill the stockings with so my son finds a note with a fun thing to do with Mommy & Daddy or just a few lines about how good he’s been behind the door each day.
December 6, 2007 at 8:26 AM
What a fantastic idea! OR at least it will be as soon my children learn to read and write.
December 6, 2007 at 12:32 PM
I LOVE THIS. What a treasure!
December 6, 2007 at 8:16 PM
What a great idea and tradition….thanks for sharing!
December 6, 2007 at 8:43 PM
Wonderful tradition. I love how it redirects our thoughts to others. You’re right, just what we need this time of year. Sounds like you have a wonderfully inspired mom. Thanks for sharing!
December 6, 2007 at 10:31 PM
i absolutely love this idea! my little ones are 2 & 4 so we may be a ways off from this, but i will definitely hold onto this idea. thank you for sharing this beautiful tradition/reminder of what christmas is all about.
December 7, 2007 at 6:23 AM
What a wonderful, sweet tradition. I love it.
December 7, 2007 at 11:36 AM
I still like your post on how to get through the holidays–that was a great one.
December 8, 2007 at 8:40 AM
Thanks for sharing! That’s a simple idea, but I can see how it can be such a nice thing in the family! I think we’ll bring this up in FHE this week and see if we can start our own tradition of stocking stuffers.
December 8, 2007 at 9:10 AM
This is such a great idea. Guess that means the stockings have to get up on time
I really do love this though – such a great focus on loving one another. Thanks!
December 8, 2007 at 10:28 AM
I love that idea! Maybe we’ll do this, when my boys get old enough!
December 8, 2007 at 11:53 AM
this is a great idea that i think we’ll incorporate into our family traditions. i am always stumped as to what to fill stockings with and this will be so much better than anything that I could buy. thanks for sharing
December 8, 2007 at 6:15 PM
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family tradition.
December 9, 2007 at 11:12 AM
Cute idea! I would have never thought of doing that. It is great to have your own family traditions..
December 9, 2007 at 9:03 PM
what a beautiful tradition! thank you for sharing
December 9, 2007 at 9:04 PM
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December 9, 2007 at 9:33 PM
What a beautiful tradition! I’m going to have to start that with my own family.
December 12, 2007 at 12:25 AM
love it – thx!
December 12, 2007 at 6:45 AM
What a beautiful idea!
December 12, 2007 at 9:58 AM
I love this idea… I’m gonna have to try it out.
December 12, 2007 at 12:39 PM
What a beautiful idea!!!!!!! I love it!