July 9, 2009

My Baby Is One

ER 1 year old cropped

My Sweet Little Eli,

My heart is full as I sit here and think about all the joy you have brought to our family this last year.  Having a tiny baby in the home is such a tender blessing and gift from the Lord.   Your presence has forever changed all of us for the better.

Er with Family

You make the eyes and face of your older sister sparkle and beam with pride.  You make the laugh of your older brother ring out loudly.  You make your daddy’s heart melt and all his worries disappear every time he sees you. And you make me relish motherhood more than I ever thought I could.

Keri and Eli Feb 09

Your delightful spirit is healing.  It is calming and soothing.  It causes one to forget their troubles and trials and helps them to focus instead on the abundant life they live.

Your smile is radiant and infectious.  Members at church, people at the gym, strangers in the grocery store.  They all fall prey to your cherubic grin.  And even though it is no longer toothless since your two bottom teeth finally broke through a few weeks ago, it is still just as charming.

I adore your koala clinging hugs and snuggles.  I am already dreading the day when you will be too big for me to embrace so easily.  Or the day when you might decide that being smothered in hugs and kisses from your mother isn’t something you need anymore.

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Last week when you took your first step, it was a bittersweet moment for me.  I applaud the independence and freedom you are slowly acquiring, yet my heart aches a little that you are growing up.  Growing up so quickly.

My love for you runs deep.

Deep and wide.

I am so grateful the Lord blessed me with you.  And that He also blessed me with your brother and sister and father.

Happy Birthday my baby!

Much Love Always and Forever,
Mommy

ER 1st Bday Present

Eli peering into his package.

ER 1st Bday Cake

Eli sneaking a taste of his cake.

June 28, 2009

What Is My Light Bulb?

green light bulb

On a dark December night 36 years ago, a Lockheed 1011 jumbo jet crashed into the Florida Everglades, killing over 100 people. This terrible accident was one of the deadliest crashes in the history of the United States.

A curious thing about this accident is that all vital parts and systems of the airplane were functioning perfectly—the plane could have easily landed safely at its destination in Miami, only 20 miles away.

During the final approach, however, the crew noticed that one green light had failed to illuminate—a light that indicates whether or not the nose landing gear has extended successfully. The pilots discontinued the approach, set the aircraft into a circling holding pattern over the pitch-black Everglades, and turned their attention toward investigating the problem.

They became so preoccupied with their search that they failed to realize the plane was gradually descending closer and closer toward the dark swamp below. By the time someone noticed what was happening, it was too late to avoid the disaster.

After the accident, investigators tried to determine the cause. The landing gear had indeed lowered properly. The plane was in perfect mechanical condition. Everything was working properly—all except one thing: a single burned-out lightbulb. That tiny bulb—worth about 20 cents—started the chain of events that ultimately led to the tragic deaths of over 100 people.

Of course, the malfunctioning lightbulb didn’t cause the accident; it happened because the crew placed its focus on something that seemed to matter at the moment while losing sight of what mattered most. ~ Dieter F. Uchtdorf

How often do I do this?

How often do I become obsessively preoccupied with a-not-entirely-vital light bulb and thus in turn ignore the bigger picture around me and become distracted from what is most important?

I am afraid the answer is far too often.

It is probably daily if I am being completely honest.

But my point in this post isn’t to make me or you feel guilty.  I don’t want any pity parties to be thrown.

All I want to do is gauge where my true focuses are. What do I want out of my life?  What is my big picture goal?  Are my daily, hourly and 5 minute goals aligned with my eternal perspective?

If not, I  want to start recognizing now … TODAY … what my distracting burned out light bulbs are.  And then I want to change them.  I want to change the ones that I can control, for I can not control the actions of others, only the actions of myself.

Pause for a moment and check where your own heart and thoughts are. Are you focused on the things that matter most? How you spend your quiet time may provide a valuable clue. Where do your thoughts go when the pressure of deadlines is gone? Are your thoughts and heart focused on those short-lived fleeting things that matter only in the moment, or on things that matter most?

What grudges do you bear? What excuses do you cling to that keep you from being the kind of [person] you know you should be? What are the things that distract you from your duties or hinder you?

Sometimes the things that distract us are not bad, in and of themselves; often they even make us feel good.

It is possible to take even good things to excess. ~ Dieter F. Uchtdorf

Well I am off to do some light bulb changing housekeeping.

I don’t expect perfection out of myself, but I do want to do the very best that I know I can.  Before it is too late.

June 17, 2009

And She Scores …

A few weeks ago I wrote a post about this and that.

Thanks to your gentle encouragement and persuasion, I splurged.

On tickets …

with great seats at a pretty decent price …

to this.

Wicked Logo

I can not wait.  I have been obsessively listening to the music.  Even seven year old Keri is learning the lyrics to the songs.  One of her favorites? “Popular.”

I don’t think I will be disappointed with my decision.

And one more thing.  Some of you also wanted to see a picture of my new hair cut. I am not particularly fond of either of these photos, but such is life :) .

LR Haircut 2009

Taken right after the stylist styled it.

LR 2009 New Haircut

Taken a week later.

June 9, 2009

One Month Shy Of One

My little baby will soon be leaving his babyhood behind.

ER 11 months sitting with ball

Eli is now 11 months old.  That just makes me shake my head and wonder where the last year of my life has gone.

And speaking of shaking heads, that is one thing Eli has down pat, especially when you tell him no.  More often than not, I am telling him no in reference to one of his new favorite pastimes, spitting.  It is definitely one of my least preferred talents of his, but I will secretly admit at times it is kind of cute to listen to, particularly when it makes Cory laugh his head off.  However, if he starts spitting during mealtime?  That is when I get a tad more frustrated.

Cruising along furniture is another thing Eli does.  He can also balance while standing for a pretty long time, although he still hasn’t taken any steps on his own.  But that is perfectly OK with me, I don’t want him to grow up any faster than he already is.

ER 11 months standing

He is also learning how to wave hi and bye on his own.  It is incredibly darling to watch, especially when his face is lit up with a huge smile.  He still is quite the social flirt.

ER 11 months toothless

As you can tell, he is still toothless.  But that might be changing soon.  Today he has been drooling like crazy, his nose has been a bit runny and his appetite isn’t what it normally is. We shall see if a tooth will sprout up soon.

Like most babies, Eli is curious about everything.  And I mean everything.  Exploration and discovery is what he is all about.

ER 11 months helping with laundry

If you are switching laundry, he wants to help.  If you are unloading the dishwasher, he wants to come bang on the open door and play with all the clean dishes.  If you are trying to put a fan in the window, he tries to get it before it is too high to reach.  And he can get quite the death grip on things you try to take away from him.

Mischievous might be a good word to describe him at times.

I think we can officially say that Eli’s first word is mama.  Although in his talk it is more, “Mamamamama.”  I am pretty sure he is deliberately trying to say my name when he sees me. It is rather endearing.

And even though I am still not a fan of Eli’s cat naps … 20 minutes does NOT count as a nap! … I am pleased with his night sleeping now.  Knock on wood, but for the last week or so he has been sleeping through the night.

Phew.  What a relief.

Now I need to train myself to go to bed earlier.

ER 11 months sleeping

June 7, 2009

Another Little Debbie Giveaway … And A Bright Green One, Too

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Little Debbie is at it again.  They recently sent me another box of goodies.  This time I received 5 boxes of their muffins, a relatively new product they sell.

They come in quite the variety of flavors: Chocolate Chip, Double Chocolate, Blueberry, Cranberry-and-Orange and Lemon.  Of course as soon as I got the package, I had to indulge in a Double Chocolate one.  They are pretty tasty.

little debbie muffins

If you would like to win your own sample box of Little Debbie muffins so you can try all their new flavors that come individually wrapped in a smallish 200 calorie size package (perfect for lunch boxes and a wonderful way to satisfy those sweet cravings we all get), then simply leave a comment on this post before Saturday June 13th.

If you want to be entered into this contest three times, then in your comment tell me about some swell summer activities you have planned.

I have 3 lovely boxes to giveaway.

But the fun doesn’t stop there. I also have 2 Bright Green reusable shopping bags that come with Bright Green product coupons to giveaway.

Bright Green Reusable Bag

What is Bright Green?

Bright Green is a new line of home care products featuring cleaning and laundry soaps made with biodegradable and naturally derived ingredients, energy-efficient light bulbs and paper products made from 100 percent recycled content sold exclusively at Safeway stores.

I have enjoyed the Bright Green Hand Dish Wash Liquid and the Bright Green All Purpose Cleaner they sent me.

Bright Green Safeway Products

If you would like to enter this contest, then also leave a comment on this post before Saturday June 13th.

If you want to be entered into this second contest three times, then in your comment tell me about some changes you have made in your lifestyle that have helped you become more green.

Both of these contests are for U.S. residents only.

I hope everyone is having a good, green start to their summer!

June 2, 2009

Consecration: A Partnership and Journey With The Lord

In my previous post, I mentioned the fact that I recently gave a talk in Church on the topic of consecration.  Some people expressed an interest in reading it, so here it is.

Beware, it is rather long … I was asked to speak for 15 minutes. If you don’t want to read all of it, maybe skim the quotes I used, mainly from President Uchtdorf and Elder Maxwell. They are powerful.

Happy Reading!

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When the Bishop emailed me and asked if I could speak on the topic of consecration, I thought, me?  Address the ward congregation about consecration? I felt and still feel wholly inadequate in this.  I am praying the Spirit will be with me as I share the thoughts I have prepared and that the Spirit will be with you as you listen to my message so you might be able to glean something of value which you can then apply to your own personal life.

The topic of consecration can be overwhelming, at least for me it can be.  It is a heavy topic, a topic that can be difficult to understand as you try to wrap your head around all the principles and doctrines it encompasses. Pondering it can cause your mind, heart and soul to stretch in dimensions that might be uncomfortable.  After all, the thought of living a fully consecrated life can be daunting.  This in turn can lead us to feel frightened and guilty that we aren’t living our life the way we should.  It can make us begin to wonder and question, am I even up to such a task? Am I worthy?  Am I capable?  These questions can then leave us feeling uneasy and can cause us to squirm in our seat.  Then perhaps after feelings like this, we might succumb to despair, one of Satan’s favorite tools.

But thankfully we have the gospel in our life and “the gospel is the good news of Christ.”  As President Uchtdorf described it in his most recent general conference address entitled “The Way of the Disciple,” the gospel is “a pearl beyond price, the grand key of knowledge that once understood and applied, unlocks a life of happiness, peace and fulfillment.”  President Uchtdorf then continued, “The gospel is the way of discipleship.  As we walk in that way, we can experience confidence and joy – even during times of peril, sorrow, and uncertainty.”

What a powerful blessing that is.  If we choose the gospel, that means we are choosing the way of discipleship.  And if we choose and live the way of discipleship that means the Lord will bestow upon us confidence, personal revelation and joy, even during, or should I say especially during, the times in our life when we are walking through the refiners fire.

When we think about the gospel in this simplified manner, it is probably relatively easy for all of us to at least desire to lead this kind of life so we can partake of these immense blessings.  By having such a desire, even if it is as tiny as can be, we can learn to become disciples of Christ and therefore learn how to consecrate the life we live fully to Him.

Our desire is the key beginning point.  As Elder Neal A. Maxwell eloquently states:

Everything depends—initially and finally—on our desires. These shape our thought patterns. Our desires thus precede our deeds and lie at the very cores of our souls, tilting us toward or away from God.  God can “educate our desires.” Others seek to manipulate our desires. But it is we who form the desires, the “thoughts and intents of [our] hearts.”

President Uchtdorf reiterates this theme when he exclaims:

The first step on the path of discipleship begins, luckily enough, in the exact place where we stand! We do not have to prequalify to take that first step. It doesn’t matter if we are rich or poor. There is no requirement to be educated, eloquent, or intellectual. We do not have to be perfect or well-spoken or even well-mannered.  You and I can walk in the path of discipleship today.

Each of us can possess this desire to become a disciple of Christ, and as we do so, we will begin our journey, a “race of endurance,” not a sprint, of consecrating our life to Him.

In 1992, Elder Neal A. Maxwell gave a general conference address entitled, “Settle This In Your Hearts.” It is a poignant and powerful talk that discusses discipleship and consecration in a very comprehensive manner.  He begins his remarks with the following:

Eighteen years ago from this same pulpit, I pled with those who stood indecisively on the “porch” of the Church to come fully inside. Today my plea is to those members already inside but whose discipleship is casual, individuals whom we love, whose gifts and talents are much needed in building the kingdom!

Any call for greater consecration is, of course, really a call to all of us. But these remarks are not primarily for those who are steadily striving and who genuinely seek to keep God’s commandments and yet sometimes fall short.  Nor is this primarily for those few in deliberate noncompliance.  Instead, these comments are for the essentially “honorable” members who are skimming over the surface instead of deepening their discipleship and who are casually engaged rather than “anxiously engaged.” Though nominal in their participation, their reservations and hesitations inevitably show through. They may even pass through our holy temples, but, alas, they do not let the holy temples pass through them.

What a firm, yet gentle and encouraging reproach of the way we should be patterning our lives.  We all have room to grow. We all have more we can do to cultivate our seeds of discipleship and consecration.  Not one of us is exempt.  We are all imperfect beings, but if we choose to fully accept the gift and grace of the atonement of Jesus Christ in our lives, we can embark on a partnership and journey with the Lord that will lead us to an honest and pure offering of discipleship and consecration, and that will eventually lead us to eternal exaltation.

So once we have found and planted our sincere desire, how then can we do as Elder Maxwell advised?  How can we “deepen” our discipleship and become more “anxiously engaged” as opposed to “casually engaged?”  There are a myriad of answers to this question, but today I would like to focus on three broad and general principles.  My hope is that we can each find a way to personally apply these points and thus transform our own lives so we may continually be able to “sing the song of redeeming love.”

My first suggestion on how we can deepen our discipleship and thus in turn our offering of consecration to the Lord is to adhere to the first principles and ordinances of the gospel as outlined in the fourth Article of Faith.  Moroni 8:25-26 additionally illustrates these powerful, yet basic steps of doctrine:

And the first fruits of repentance is baptism; and baptism cometh by faith unto the fulfilling the commandments; and the fulfilling the commandments bringeth remission of sins;  And the remission of sins bringeth meekness, and lowliness of heart; and because of meekness and lowliness of heart cometh the visitation of the Holy Ghost, which Comforter filleth with hope and perfect love, which love endureth by diligence unto prayer, until the end shall come, when all the saints shall dwell with God.

President Uchtdorf further articulates the beautiful simplicity and formula of the fourth Article of Faith when he explains:

When we hear the transcendent truths of the gospel of Jesus Christ, hope and faith begin to blossom inside of us.  The more we fill our hearts and minds with the message of the risen Christ, the greater our desire is to follow Him and live His teachings. This, in turn, causes our faith to grow and allows the light of Christ to illuminate our hearts. As it does, we recognize the imperfections in our lives, and we desire to be cleansed of the depressing burdens of sin. We yearn for freedom from guilt, and this inspires us to repent.  Faith and repentance lead to the purifying waters of baptism, where we covenant to take upon us the name of Jesus Christ and walk in His footsteps.

To uphold us in the desire to lead a purified and holy life, we are endowed with the baptism of fire—the unspeakable gift of the Holy Ghost, a heavenly Comforter who accompanies and guides us as we walk in the path of righteousness.  The more we are filled with the Spirit of God, the more we extend ourselves to others. We become peacemakers in our homes and families, we help our fellowmen everywhere, and we reach out in merciful acts of kindness, forgiveness, grace, and long-suffering patience.  These are the first steps along the true way of life and fulfillment. This is the peaceable way of the follower of Jesus Christ.

Consequently, as we learn to literally “fill our hearts and minds with the message of the risen Christ,” we will naturally want to become better disciples of Him.  We will want to be more obedient.  We will want to more fully keep the commandments of God and therefore we will begin to lead a more consecrated life.  It is like a chain reaction, a domino effect.  We make good choices, we become better disciples.  But we must daily strive to make choices that point us in the right direction, the direction where we can keep our hearts and minds focused on the eternal perspective.  And when, not if, we make mistakes, we shall not fear, for we have been given the glorious gift of repentance, which gives us “beauty for ashes.”

The second suggestion I offer on how we can deepen our discipleship is we must constantly remember and abide by the covenant we made when we entered the waters of baptism.  This covenant can be found in Mosiah 18:9-10:

Yea, and are willing to mourn with those that mourn; yea, and comfort those that stand in need of comfort, and to stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places that ye may be in, even until death, that ye may be redeemed of God, and be numbered with those of the first resurrection, that ye may have eternal life—

Now I say unto you, if this be the desire of your hearts, what have you against being baptized in the name of the Lord, as a witness before him that ye have entered into a covenant with him, that ye will serve him and keep his commandments, that he may pour out his Spirit more abundantly upon you?

We partake of the sacrament on a weekly basis to remind us of this very covenant we made.  We need to consistently remember this desire we had to be baptized, or this seed that has been planted within us. We need to keep it at the forefront of our hearts and minds. We need to act on it daily.  We need to “nourish” this seed with “great care, that it may get root” so it can grow and sprout and produce fruit, fruit that will enable us to consecrate our life to the Lord.  And as we learned from Elder David A. Bednar’s address this last general conference, one of the key fruits that will sprout from this baptismal seed is the desire to enter into the Holy Temple of the Lord where we will make even more sacred covenants that will further enable us to live a life of consecration.

My third and final suggestion on how we can deepen our discipleship to the Lord is to follow the words beautifully penned in 2 Nephi 31:20:

Wherefore, ye must press forward with a steadfastness in Christ, having a perfect brightness of hope, and a love of God and of all men.  Wherefore, if ye shall press forward, feasting upon the word of Christ, and endure to the end, behold, thus saith the Father: Ye shall have eternal life.

Increased consecration means to press forward with steadfastness in Christ.  That means we need to offer our full heart, our whole heart.  Elder Maxwell cautions us to not hold anything back. He states:

Some would never sell Jesus for thirty pieces, but they would not give Him their all either!  Unfortunately, we tend to think of consecration only in terms of property and money. But there are so many ways of keeping back part.

Elder Maxwell also remarks that:

Jesus pressed forward sublimely. He did not shrink, such as by going only 60 percent of the distance toward the full atonement. Instead, He “finished [His] preparations” for all mankind, bringing a universal resurrection—not one in which 40 percent of us would have been left out.

Pressing forward with steadfastness is a personal journey which requires personal introspection and personal revelation.  In order for us to receive such one-on-one revelation, we must be living an obedient life, a life where we diligently keep the commandments of God to the best of our ability so our hearts and minds can continually be receptive to the whisperings of the Spirit.  For we never know when these whisperings will present themselves.

I would like to share a personal story about pressing “forward with a steadfastness in Christ.” Some of you know that when Cory was a little over a year old we had some scares with his cognitive development.  He wasn’t speaking, he wasn’t pointing at things and his receptive listening skills were non-existent.  For several months we did not know what this all indicated.  We didn’t know if he had some developmental delays that would affect him his entire life.  It wasn’t until later that we learned he was just a late bloomer who likes to do things on his own terms and only when he is ready.

This whole experience, though, shook me to the core.  I couldn’t help but feel that for some reason this experience I went through with Cory was merely preparatory, preparatory in dealing with a future child of mine that might have severe special needs. However, I didn’t know if I had the capability and strength to raise such a sacred child of God.  Because of this fear, I believed I was done having kids.  Two was plenty.  But deep down in my heart I knew this conviction I had founded in fear was incorrect.

One day while I was studying the February 2007 Ensign, I read an article called “Ten Axioms To Guide Your Life” written by Elder Robert D. Hales.  He explained:

Consider, for a moment, that you are the engineer of a train. As your locomotive races down the tracks, you look out the window. In the distance you see a great pile of debris blocking your way. What do you do? Radio ahead for help? Stop the train and take care of the problem yourself? Pour coal into the engine and plow on through?

Like the engineer, we can call for help. By prayer, fasting, and diligent study, we can obtain the assistance of our Heavenly Father. He will comfort us, strengthen us, and enlighten us by His Holy Spirit. Often He will give us inspired counsel through parents and priesthood leaders. Sometimes He will smooth our path by removing the obstacle. Sometimes, like a switchman, He will help us get on a different track. But from time to time, the only way to clear debris from the track is to stop the train and remove the problem.

[Occasionally, though], there are times when Heavenly Father directs us to pour on the spiritual coal of faith and hope and plow ahead. Or, to use the more scriptural phrase, “press forward.”

What a remarkable image this seared in my brain.  That is what it means to “press forward.”  I had read this scripture on numerous prior occasions, but never before had I truly grasped the depth of what it signified. Immediately I was enveloped with a peaceful and warm feeling and I knew then that it was time.  It was time to set aside my fears on having more children.  It was time “to pour on the spiritual coal of faith and hope and plow ahead” full steam with a firm and abiding trust in my Savior and Father in Heaven that I could accomplish all They asked of me.

On this occasion the Holy Ghost was whispering to me. He was whispering to me personal revelation on how I could become a better disciple of the Lord.  The Spirit was teaching me how I could further consecrate my life.

It is my hope and prayer that each of us can find and follow our personal pathway of discipleship so we can all lead a more valiant life of consecration that is pleasing to our Redeemer.  We must remember to not allow Satan to get a hold of our hearts.  Otherwise we will become overwhelmed and discouraged by all we must do.

Elder Maxwell has proclaimed:

We “cannot bear all things now,” but the Lord “will lead [us] along,” as we “give place” in our thoughts and schedules and “give away” our sins, which are the only ways we can begin to make room to receive all that God can give us.

Increased consecration is not so much a demand for more hours of Church work as it is for more awareness of whose work this really is! For now, consecration may not require giving up worldly possessions so much as being less possessed by them.  Only when things begin to come into focus “with an eye single” do we see “things as they really are”! What a view awaits!

We are not meant to walk along this journey of discipleship alone.  The Lord is here to aid us.  He has told us to,  “Fear not, little children, for you are mine.”  Let us enter into a partnership with Him and journey along the path that He knows is best for us.

We must also keep in mind President Uchtdorf’s counsel, “discipleship is not a spectator sport.”  With personal revelation and through regular scripture study, sincere prayer and church and temple attendance the Spirit will tell us how we can best consecrate our life to Him, whether it be through service to our families within the walls of our own home, or hours put into our church callings which includes our home and visiting teaching, or other community efforts.

Discipleship is a process, a process that for most of us will take our entire life.  But we can do it, especially since we are supposed to progress line upon line, precept upon precept. This is the true gospel of wisdom and order.

The Lord loves us and He is holding each of us up and cheering each of us on.  He is patiently waiting on the other side of the veil with his arms wide open to encircle each of us once we are finished here with our earthly mission.  Elder Joseph B. Wirthlin taught us this principle with “clarity” when he said:

Oh, it is wonderful to know that our Heavenly Father loves us—even with all our flaws! His love is such that even should we give up on ourselves, He never will.  “We [might] see ourselves in terms of yesterday and today. Our Heavenly Father sees us in terms of forever. . . .   “The gospel of Jesus Christ is a gospel of transformation. It takes us as men and women of the earth and refines us into men and women for the eternities.

I am grateful we have a loving Father in Heaven.  I am grateful we have a loving Savior who so freely gave each of us the gift of the Atonement.  I am grateful we have been given the plan of salvation and I am grateful for the direction this plan gives us.

I know if each of us chooses to become a true disciple of the Lord by sincerely taking His name upon us, we will indeed live a life of consecration that is pleasing unto Him.  Consecration isn’t just about pain and sacrifice, it is about faith, hope and charity.  It is about receiving blessings, joy, inspiration and revelation.  The Lord will surely bless us with innumerable tender mercies if we decide to journey in a partnership with Him.  I hope and pray we will all choose the correct path.

May 28, 2009

This and That

I have probably written at least a dozen posts over the last few weeks.

Too bad they are all in my head.

I need some sort of device that can take the posts from my brain and convert them into typed documents.  If it would also add a few graphics and do a spelling and grammar check, that would be even more grand.

The month of May is always a busy time for us.  We have Mother’s Day, our anniversary, and my husband’s birthday.  Then add to that the end of school year chaos (even though we don’t get out until June … we have lots of evening and after school events going on) while still trying to live your “normal” life and you find you don’t have a whole lot of time for sitting at the computer.

So what have we been up to?

* I held down the fort while my husband took a business trip.  Too bad I put my neck out and little Eli got sick while he was gone.  (And my neck still isn’t 100% back to normal.)

* For 3 weeks Eli had some sort of non-contagious bug in his GI tract.  Talk about lots of extra laundry and diaper changing.  Thankfully Lactobacillus acidophilus (try saying that 3 times fast) came to our rescue and helped restore things back to normal.

* Getting my hair cut.  I desperately needed a change and wanted it shorter.  I was tired of getting my hair pulled while nursing the babe.

* Preparing and giving a talk in Church on consecration.  Such a heavy topic to cover.  That in and of itself took up a lot of time, but I learned a lot in the process.

* Playing “stickball” with the kids and my husband. We go to a big empty and fenced field near our house and we whack tennis balls around with big sticks.

* Hearing a lot of old school 80’s music on the radio and enjoying every minute of it.  Poison, R.E.M., George Michael and the list goes on.

* Helping my husband teach Keri how to play the piano.  She is loving it!

* Reading.  I have realized how much I crave getting lost in a good book.

* Participating in a family wellness challenge.

* Consuming way too many chocolate chip waffles with my husband once the kiddos are all in bed.  (I need to post the scrumptious recipe.)

* Debating about whether or not it is worth it to break the bank to get Wicked tickets for this Fall.  (I am not even sure tickets are still available?!)

* Learning all about motor graders, excavators and other machines.  My 4 year old son has been in love with the non-fiction Mighty Machines shows I picked up from the library.

* Feeling a deep reverence all week every time I drive by the cemetery and see all the beautiful flowers and flags decorating the gravestones.  It makes me miss my Grandfather who passed away last Fall.  I am grateful for the time he served his country and I am grateful for the abundant life he lived.  The legacy he left is extraordinary.  I hope I can live my life following the example he set.

memorial day cemetery(Picture courtesy of Google.)

May 16, 2009

A Few Anniversary Numbers

laguna-beach-color-lr.jpgSummer of 1995 at Laguna Beach.

2 people fully in love

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14 years of friendship

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11 years of marriage

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3 children born in 3 different hospitals

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2 apartments in 2 different states

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7 different jobs

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12 years of school (one for me, 11 for him)

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5 degrees (one for me, 4 for him)

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1 short vacation sans children

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13,050 diaper changes

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An incalculable amount of happy moments involving much laughter,
love, charity and joy

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Many doses of patience, support, encouragement,
forgiveness  and understanding
(and handfuls of character building learning “discussions”)

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1 Amazing Marriage

Happy Anniversary to the man who has made my life complete!

Thank you for being you and thank you for helping me to become a better person.  That is what marriage is all about. I cherish our friendship, our relationship and all the time we have spent together and will spend together.

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Our wedding day in 1998.

May 12, 2009

A Target Accomplishment

I went to Target today with one goal in mind.

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I walked clear across the store to see if they had the item I wanted.  On my way to the correct aisle, I even glanced around here and there, just casually looking.  Once I arrived at my destination I realized they had what I needed, but in the wrong size.

So I turned around and left.

Yes, I went to Target … the nice one with two huge floors … and then left Target without spending a single penny.

That is an accomplishment.

(And I will just keep quiet the fact that I was also in Target the night before.  But that was to pick up a prescription and even then I only walked out of there $9.50 poorer.)

May 9, 2009

10 Months Old And Happy Mother’s Day

I am starting to feel like my baby is no longer a baby.  Eli is now 10 months old.

ER 10 months old

Apparently I forgot how quickly infants turn into toddlers when they hit this age. All of the sudden their tiny personality really starts to blossom and they are constantly letting you know their wants, wishes, desires as well as their dislikes and  frustrations.

Little Eli will now screech quite loudly when he wants something and it is not going his way, especially when he is sitting in his high chair and he thinks we are taking too long to get him some grub to eat.  He will also start looking for things when you take them away from him, especially if it is something he really wants and he is not supposed to have it.

Eli also likes to clap his hands and squeal with delight.  At times you can grin at him and say, “Yay!” and his face brightens up and he will start clapping for you.

Eli also adores music.  He likes to bounce and nod his head when he hears it.  He also enjoys when we read to him and he has even learned how to turn pages.

Crawling is finally now a feat Eli can add to his resume.  It is rather cute to watch this tiny little guy crawl around our house, especially since he crawls in a kind-of-not-so-ordinary way.  Instead of using his left knee to crawl on, he uses his left foot to kind of walk and crawl at the same time.  It is quite endearing.

ER Crawling

He loves to pull himself up onto anything and everything, but he hasn’t quite figured out the whole cruising thing.

Eli 10 months standing

Every day Eli is babbling more and more.  I love to stop whatever I am doing to listen to him jabber.  Sometimes it even sounds like he says, “Mamamama” when he sees me.

Eli is quite the social creature.  He loves to be around people.  Perhaps this is the reason why he doesn’t sleep very well at night or for his naps.  Maybe he misses hanging out with his family too much.

And his charming grin?  Still toothless.  Maybe before he turns one he will finally sprout a tooth.  But since I am nursing him, I don’t mind at all.

ER 10 months old toothless grin

Little guy hasn’t been feeling well this past week, at times he has been down right miserable.  And unfortunately I slept wrong on my neck earlier this week so I don’t feel good either.  I can look right, but looking left and even up and down brings on pain.  Hopefully Mother’s Day will bring us back to good health.

Kids Mother's Day Flowers 2009

Rudy and the kids surprised me today by
getting me lovely Mother’s Day flowers.

And to all the women of the world, I hope you have a blessed and happy Mother’s Day.

“Woman is God’s supreme creation. Only after the earth had been formed, after the day had been separated from the night, after the waters had been divided from the land, after vegetation and animal life had been created, and after man had been placed on the earth, was woman created; and only then was the work pronounced complete and good.

“Of all the creations of the Almighty, there is none more beautiful, none more inspiring than a lovely daughter of God who walks in virtue with an understanding of why she should do so, who honors and respects her body as a thing sacred and divine, who cultivates her mind and constantly enlarges the horizon of her understanding, who nurtures her spirit with everlasting truth.” ~ Gordon B. Hinckley

“I wonder if you sisters fully understand the greatness of your gifts and talents and how all of you can achieve the ‘highest place of honor’ in the Church and in the world. One of your unique, precious, and sublime gifts is your femininity, with its natural grace, goodness, and divinity. Femininity is not just lipstick, stylish hairdos, and trendy clothes. It is the divine adornment of humanity. It finds expression in your qualities of your capacity to love, your spirituality, delicacy, radiance, sensitivity, creativity, charm, graciousness, gentleness, dignity, and quiet strength. It is manifest differently in each girl or woman, but each of you possesses it. Femininity is part of your inner beauty.

“One of your particular gifts is your feminine intuition. Do not limit yourselves. As you seek to know the will of our Heavenly Father in your life and become more spiritual, you will be far more attractive, even irresistible. You can use your smiling loveliness to bless those you love and all you meet, and spread great joy. Femininity is part of the God-given divinity within each of you. It is your incomparable power and influence to do good. You can, through your supernal gifts, bless the lives of children, women, and men. Be proud of your womanhood. Enhance it. Use it to serve others.” ~ James E. Faust

Happy Mother’s Day!

Mother's Day Flowers 2009 B

May 3, 2009

Relishing Motherhood

One of the highlights of my day?

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It was early evening and I could feel the lovely witching hours fast approaching.  To avoid disaster at the end of a relatively good day, I promptly declared, “Couch time.  Get some books and read.”   (Their other option?  An early bed time.)

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I am beyond thrilled this spontaneous tactic worked beautifully.  The kids sat and read together for nearly 45 minutes … well, little Eli didn’t participate for quite that long.  He only lasted for a moment because he would rather eat and crinkle these types of books as opposed to read them and look at the pictures.

Some other highlights of the day?

Chatting with a dear friend, creating and coloring Mother’s Day cards, eating chocolate chip buttermilk waffles and taking a sunny walk through the “forest.”

Was it the perfect day?  Not entirely.  But compared with yesterday it was wonderful.

I am grateful for the tender mercies the Lord continually gives me.

April 30, 2009

Chicken Soup For The Soul: A Mother’s Day Giveaway

Mother’s Day is just around the corner and in order to help you celebrate, I am sponsoring a little giveaway.

What is up for grabs? Two well-known, inspirational books. 

(And by the way, this giveaway has no shipping restrictions, so international readers, make sure you enter!)

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Chicken Soup for the Soul: Like Mother, Like Daughter

From borrowed outfits to goofy mannerisms, there is a time when most women must sheepishly admit, “I’m turning into my mother.”  But while our uncanny connections can draw us closer, sometimes these similarities can drive us up the wall.  Chicken Soup for the Soul: Like Mother, Like Daughter provides a collection of stories written by moms and daughters on maternal wisdom, raising teenage girls, becoming friends with Mom, grandmothers, granddaughters, and more.

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Chicken Soup for the Soul: Moms and Sons

As numerous mothers know, raising boys can be an adventure.  From baby blue blankets to first wedding dances, sons provide their mothers immeasurable amounts of joy – not to mention bruised knees to clean, rambunctious friends, and good-natured teasing.  Written for mothers and “mama’s boys” everywhere, Chicken Soup for the Soul: Moms and Sons offers glimpses into the touching – and often funny – interactions between mothers and their boys, as grateful sons, single moms, and loving grandmothers all chime in to add their voices to this new collection.

So how can YOU win one of these books?

Simply leave a positive comment on this post that revolves around the theme mothering. Please feel free to be creative – and I am not looking for anything elaborate.  A short sentence or paragraph is sufficient :) !

You can tell me why you love and appreciate your own mother.  You can share a memory about your own mother or grandmother or your favorite aunt or teacher.  You can also tell me about something you have learned while being a mother/nurturer to your own kids or a child you are close with.

This contest will close at the end of Tuesday May 5th when 2 lucky winners will be selected, one for each book.

(If you have a preference on which book you would like to win, please indicate this in your comment.)